It has been a while since I updated my blog and when I tell you why you’ll probably appreciate I had other things going on.
We had a great end to what was a tough, but worthwhile year of stem cell treatment and I was doing pretty well, my hair even started to get back to its normal straight self and lost the curls, although the darkness is still there, but hey, that’s the least of my worries. I was feeling more independent and willing to face reality that although I’ve had the stem cell treatment it’s not a cure for my failing eyesight. For some it’s hard to come to terms with issues we face, much easier to brush them under the carpet and put on a brave face, which is what I have done. At the end of the year I went to a 2 day workshop lead by the Royal National Institute for the Blind (RNIB) centred around Understanding Sight Loss. Anna took some time off work and came with me, which I think she’s tell you herself was pretty insightful (no pun intended). The course was lead by an inspirational lady who became blind after her 1st child, she leads a ‘normal’ life with the help of her Guide Dog and an aid who her assists her at work. Now, I don’t have full sight loss, so I am classed as ‘visually impaired’; to put that into context, when you go for an eye test and they ask you to read the row of letter on the white board I am ‘count fingers’ as I can’t read them. Some of the folk who attended the course were recently partially sighted, one from a stroke and the other from a freak accident involving a door handle – I won’t go into detail!
It was comforting to spend 2 days discussing understanding sight loss with those who are experiencing the same thing, to listen and to not only be able to sympathise with their woes, but to find positives in our daily challenges. I suppose my situation is slightly different in that I also have mobility and memory issues.
Anyway, we are into January 2018 and I’d since been in touch with the RNIB to discuss how I could get involved with the RNIB on a volunteer basis, but it soon came to a halt as I had another incident with the stairs. I know, I do love those stairs! I got up to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night, was walking back along the corridor to our bedroom, lost my footing and fell down the stairs. Anna woke up, probably from the almighty bang and my yelping, and with the help of my Dad we made it to A&E. The long and short of it is I had fractured my back, I didn’t realise at the time as I didn’t score my pain at a 9, more a 5/6, whereas the Orthopaedic Consultant was puzzled as to why I wasn’t reporting my pain as higher; the more he got to know me through my time in hospital he realised I don’t feel pain like he or you would, and this is probably a cause from my MS – either that or I’m one of the X-Men!
I missed Freddie’s 6th birthday party, which really saddened me, but he came into the hospital on his birthday and we had a cake for him to celebrate. I got an infection while in hospital and I battled through it, but it meant a 5 day delay once I’d responded to the antibiotics as I needed to be well before any metal was put in me. The brilliant Consultant fixed my T12 fracture with screws, cement and some bone graft taken from my hip, ouch! There are always risks in any kind of operation, but one which worried me and more Anna was the risk of losing my sight completely if there was interruption to the spinal cord; the risk was low, but increased due to my MS and optic neuritis. When I came out of the operation and into Recovery one of our Anaesthetist friends met me in there and FaceTimed Anna so she could be comforted that I could see – a bit of a moment for Anna, and we are so grateful for his friendship.
After a while in hospital I came home, a few gifts from Occupational Health for the home and a back brace to aid my recovery. So, having been on a good stretch my fall down the stairs at the start of the year was a real blow. I used a walker for a few weeks and have gradually got back using a stick outside the home. It’s now April and I had my first trip to the gym and pilates lesson since my fall; I’m feeling more positive.
Last year I was honoured by a couple of close University friends, Mark & Dave, to run the Belfast Half Marathon for the Blood Fund, the charity for the facility that carried out my stem cell treatment at Hammersmith Hospital. This year another friend, Hannah Smith, who Anna went to school with, found out in January she got a place to run in the London Marathon and asked if she could run it in honour of me to raise funds for Multiple Sclerosis. This is the first marathon Hannah will have ever done and I am impressed with her gusto and determination. She’s found herself training in rain, snow and more snow and this week is the first time she’s done a run in shorts. Hannah’s husband Rob is a good pal of mine, our boys are good friends and Hannah has been great support for Anna. She’s made her way from Norwich to London today, she’s picked up her kit and I hope she’s going to be in bed now after a hearty pasta supper. I’ll be tracking Hannah on the Virgin Money London Marathon app, with her number 43980. I’m sure many of you may know of folk running the marathon with a story to tell, but if you don’t and fancy giving Hannah some last minute donations to the Multiple Sclerosis Society then please do, she would welcome the donations and inspirational comments. You might think, I can’t donate again, but it’s not for me, it’s for the Charity that can help me and others. www.justgiving.com/fundraising/hannah-smith2018
Good luck Hannah – I’ll be watching and wishing I could run with you.
To download the app, search ‘Virgin Money London Marathon’ in the iPhone or android app store